Be positive!keep positive!

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It’s time to be grateful.

Actually sometimes we get so engrossed with our lives and become so self-centred and egocentric, that we slowly start forgetting that we are provided with everything which is required for us. We start comparing and complaining ourselves with others. Which creates disharmony and imbalance for us emotionally and in environment. People who are interacting with us slowly get to know about our insecurities and emotional turmoil, either they will stay wise and use their wisdom and stay connected but keeping some distance. And if the insecurities are high, some will disconnect to keep their sanity.

To keep yourself happy and fulfilled, start thinking positive. Stop comparing. Visualise things you want and see with the eyes as if it’s happening in real. Keep positive attitude. Stay happy and fulfilled. Stay satisfied and attract things you want with pure intention. There will be magical change in your life

Be Positive! Keep positive!

Creating Healthy Yourself in Conflicting Situation

10 life lessons we learnt from Dr APJ Abdul Kalam

By Prateek Pathak

Posted on Yesterday at 10:03 pm

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Former President & eminent scientist Dr APJ Abdul Kalam passed away in Shillong on Monday. Kalam collapsed during a speech at IIM Shillong and was immediately rushed to the nearby Bethany Hospital.
Here are some of Kalam’s inspirational sayings through which he will be remembered forever…
“You have to dream before your dreams can come true.”
“If a country is to be corruption free and become a nation of beautiful minds, I strongly feel there are three key societal members who can make a difference. They are the father, the mother and the teacher.”
“My message, especially to young people is to have courage to think differently, courage to invent, to travel the unexplored path, courage to discover the impossible and to conquer the problems and succeed. These are great qualities that they must work towards. This is my message to the young people.”
“To succeed in your mission, you must have single-minded devotion to your goal.”
“Let me define a leader. He must have vision and passion and not be afraid of any problem. Instead, he should know how to defeat it. Most importantly, he must work with integrity.”
“Great dreams of great dreamers are always transcended.”
“Let us sacrifice our today so that our children can have a better tomorrow.”
“Man needs his difficulties because they are necessary to enjoy success.”
“Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work.”
“You see, God helps only people who work hard. That principle is very clear.”

What happens when people change their countries!

Its seemed very easy to think about changing any country and country’s people,hoping for its brighter future.But as time passes by, one realizes that the differences between two cultures,people attitudes,civility,traffic rules,language,politics,way of expression etc. is quite diverge.One tries little harder at first to be positive and looks forward to adjust with his/her environment but his/her adjustment power goes weaker day by day,until one has no other option then staying stronger is the only option one has.

The new comer tries to chance the environment around for the betterment.He/she tries its best to infuse good things for people to learn,get those changes which is lacking in the attitudes of the people, in other words, would call it civility,learning to feel for each other,respecting each others rights and valuing each other,would love to see people not manipulating and live simple life, honoring each other,live and let live attitude,acceptance and adopting diversity.But all this try, seemed to feel in vain.One could feel the rigidity and non acceptance of new comer and new learning.

There would be lots of people, who would not mind giving sarcastic comments for bringing those changes,and there would be other people too, who would love to hear you and accept you but would not try helping you in bringing those changes, and there would be those people too who would love to hear and change too.But maximum would be with that non learning attitude.They would just love the way things are and would have a great cynical attitude for you.It seems you are one new target for them to prey on.That would satisfy their ego and they even may feel relieved in doing so.

But this whole thing just gave one good lesson to learn. That is just be who you are, do what you want to do,try your best not to change your authentic you,be non judgmental(the biggest mantra)which would help you in living your best life you desired and to stay blissful.Hopefully seeing you happy and consistent,people might try changing themselves and change their behaviour by uplifting others, by helping people around them,by respecting each others values and accept their diversity.

beauty of relationship

As we all know we are social animals,and we would feel happy and contend by being connected with other beings.It could be possible that some of us would be very happy by having smaller groups to connect with or some would be very happy being connected with larger groups.This all depends on the type of personalities we posses..But this dose not mean that we become lesser by relating with smaller groups of people or by being in connection with bigger groups.This all depends by our own opinion.

Knowing that we all are having different personalities also dose not mean that we become lesser in any sense.This again gets judged by the people we get acquainted with.Some of us like getting friendly with people who are likeminded and their company or presence makes us feel comfortable and with some people we feel indifferent, who do not match with our own nature or character.It all depends on what we want and what are our goals in life.

some of us like to meet with likeminded people, to share and grow and get inwardly happy. which feels nurturing to the soul. which probably have no other intention other then learning from each other and reach to that spiritual level which gives us soul satisfaction.which feels food for soul.One reaches to that euphoric state.I guess this is all because some of us are made with similar character and our goals would be same too.This could work like meditation and great healing.One gets stress free and feels lighter.Their is sacred relationship between these people where there is no materialistic manipulation, its all about spiritual growth with understanding the world around them, they might get judgmental in this process but this is also learning to reach to higher level of consciousness and learning to be non judgmental and accepting people as they are.This would make them more polished by working on themselves and become more loving and accepting the world around them.This all could be done by interacting with likeminded people and stay connected with nature, do meditation, exercise ,read books or even dancing and music helps in this process. Different people have different ways of doing it and reaching their goal of staying stress free and being non judgemental of their surroundings.

There are other kind of people who are with different goals. Goals like materialistic goals.Where they get more satisfaction by being involved in more material things.For example they love to posses power,” power of money”, “power of being recognised”, “power of possessing material things”,” power of controlling people”,” power of thinking being best”,” power of being on top of other people” etc. But in this process they would forget that we all are made with that same consciousness that would want to posses nothing other then get soul food.The food which gives feeling of contentment, stress free feeling ,feeling of joy, feeling of happiness in small things we do in everyday life, like loving each other, doing good for others etc.

There is no doubt that some people say that how would we survive if we do not get the feeling for “the power of money”.They are absolutely right,but for that they could play it in right way.They could do their earning, but not by hurting others or by breaking the hearts of their close ones, just to achieve their money goals.They need not put someone down or make someone feel low for making money.They could avoid manipulating relationship for meeting their ends.Earning is not bad,it is must for survival, but got to be earned by respecting yourself and even others.If they are not able to do this ,in the end they would become money puppets and would look for stress free life, look for people who would nurture their souls and make them feel better about themselves.They go to all those places where they could get connected with their inner consciousness.They would look for healing themselves.

To earn power,is not only for money,it is for all other powers too.But slowly in the end people learn to be non judgemental,accept everyone around them as they are and love each other,because we are social animals and we love to connect with each other.

This is my house.

It’s fulfilling to be kind and compassionate

The Bloggess

The greatest gift in the world is to grant a kindness to another. The amazing thing though is that the aforementioned gift is one you give yourself. It may be a small thing. Leaving a flower for the tired woman at the coffee shop. Telling a stranger that they have such kind eyes. Listening happily to a story told by an elderly friend or relative who has told you the same story a million times. Nodding in solidarity even when you don’t completely understand. Letting a friend or a stranger yell hurtful things at you because you hope it will help them let go of a small part of that anger…that it will open up room in them for the greater things that they deserve.

This is the way the world goes. Small, mean acts affect the next person who in turn amplify that anger or sadness and take it out on others who suffer…

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Smiling face 

Sometimes we are so over pressured by our surroundings and with our own problems that we get in a habit of staying in sad mood which is very natural but to get solution for this is to just pull a forceful smile on your face.This actually changes your mood to feeling a bit better and you get a feeling of hope,that everything thing is going to be alright.This also changes your emotional balance to coping with the situation which is a very good sign.So try and come out from being upset…

Have a lovely day 😊

Morning glory 

beautiful sunrise!!!

beautiful sunrise!!!

Feel the stillness in the morning…that stillness brings us close to God Feel that silence in the morning…that silence brings us close to God

Feel that quietness in the morning…that quietness beings us close to God

This stillness,silence and quietness are what we are and can try keeping it throughout our day…it’s like a prayer.

hello everyone!

Hello everyone!

Starting this blog for creating positive world and developing healthy growth in the environment.I did my masters in clinical psychology and through years of reading inspirational books and studying psychology, it bought me awareness that by thinking positive we bring positive back to us. I call it power of intention,and dear readers, i am not joking it worked for me and still works for me.Read “Power of Intention” by Wheyn W Dyer.This book gave me power to change my thoughts into positive thoughts and getting what i wanted.

Being a healer, life coach, consultant and psychological counselor, if one is in need of advice or counseling,please contact me on my number 09799558920.
Sincerely,

Nikita.